Comments:

Erika - 2005-08-15 12:16:25
i'm sorry jeff. i wish there was something i could say to help. you've been there for me a lot, and i wish i could be there for you. if you want it, you can have the number and we'll talk. just let me know. i'm going to go smoke now. ;) xo!
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Desiree - 2005-08-15 14:45:57
Relationship issues are never easy. One thing I've learned is that loving someone is great...but if you have a mountain of problems prior to even getting married...they are only compounded by marriage. Not that you don't already know this. Had she found a phone number (or condom wrapper) in your pocket...I can understand the feelings of doubt regarding your trustworthiness...but we are talking about a vice that helps you cope that she does not approve of. I've been reading you for awhile, and yes, I know this only can represent a segment of who a person is...but you seem like such a wonderful person. Remember something...We ALL have issues. No one is easy to be with...and if it's too easy...it's not the right one. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
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LostMystic76 - 2005-08-15 19:34:03
I don't think anyone could have said it better then Desiree. Any issues now will be compounded by the marriage - trust me I've been through that one, and it is not pretty. Same with the cigs....you sneaking a puff to help you chill is not the end of the world or have anything to do with your trustworthiness! Tell her to try dealing with a husband who snorts coke, and hides alcohol in the house all the while verbally abusing you. It's one thing to make a deal when you actually have an issue with someone, it's another to create issues out of nothing. I'm rambling, as always, but that's what I do - lol. I don't hide any of my feelings from Jaime, and the same goes with him. The simple fact is that we're going to hear things that don't make us happy. That's life. If you're mature enough you can rationally handle the situations when they come. If you can't find a way to handle them now, a marriage will only make them much worse. I hope everything works out for you though....I really do.
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Ryanne - 2005-08-16 15:57:32
Hey, long time no talk!! I am sorry to hear about you and Emily fighting! I really hoped that you would be happy finally!! If you wanna talk u know how to reach me!
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